Fear, worry and massive feelings of attachment to what we want for our kids will take over at times - how do we handle it?
Fear, worry and massive feelings of attachment to what we want for our kids will take over at times - how do we handle it?
“I reminded myself every single day that you two needed me, whether or not you knew it. That thought would get me through, even on the roughest days.”
I'm focusing on the dads and all those who are partnered or co-parenting.
No father should have to tackle the confusion alone.
The battle of two wills.
3 small but powerful things to help you stay grounded and present, resulting in deeper connection.
Connection can show up in a million and one different ways and is most certainly not a one-size fits all type of thing. And here’s the secret pathway to building that connection…
My daughter perceived my excitement as me trying to control her decision. And, if I’m being completely honest with myself, maybe there was some truth to that.
When we come to them from that place of fear, our messaging gets too intense and too blurry, and therefore glossed over by our kids.
Our kids are growing up trying to fit into a social expectation that does nothing but contradict itself. A world that scolds us when we’re too insecure, but also when we’re too confident. Too curvy, or not curvy enough. Too shy, or too bold. Too sexy. Not sexy enough…
How to be the “cool” parent. Let’s talk about it.
Their brains are literally under construction. They’re highly emotional, clumsy, forgetful, hysterical, goofy, and all sorts of out of control, and can’t do a thing about it.
The school year is starting here in beautiful Colorado. Some of us are longing for there introduction of structure and consistency, while others are still loving the summer vibes and grieving the end of this magical season.
How to set up a safe space where we freely and boldly talk about all things “sex” with our children.
Sexuality. A word that likely elicits some really deep sighs as parents. I’m here to help.
Fear. A totally normal emotion that comes when you have something to lose. And let’s face it - as parents who love our kiddos more than life itself, we have a lot to lose.
If you’re anything like me, one of the thoughts that keeps you up at night is worrying about your daughter’s friend groups. Do her friends treat her well? Does she treat them well?
While this can be a wonderful time for self-reflection and tuning into your inner-wisdom, it can also feel like a terribly lonely time. Self-reflection can quickly slip into self-doubt. Building a community of other consciously-minded parents can help you navigate those fears that can certainly arise.
They can feel extremely painful, deregulating, and even scary. But the thing is, fights should happen. We connect, we disconnect, and we reconnect. That is the heart of any relationship.
As you well know, connection is my schtick. How we connect, when we connect, why we connect, can we connect?? Connection and emotional bonding are key parts of being a human.